
By Afi Scruggs and Rachel Dissell
Two days before Carmen Bailey fell ill with COVID-19 in late April, she told her daughter not to take her to the hospital if she ever got the disease.
As her symptoms progressed over a week — first a mild headache, then congestion — the 52-year-old was too tired to work. And it got harder to care for the three children – ages 4, 5 and 8 — who live with her.
Still, she refused to seek treatment.
“Oh no, I’m not doing that. Ain’t nobody putting me on no ventilator,” Bailey said later, recalling the conversation with her daughter that followed a news report they watched about the virus.
As Bailey, a graphic designer who specializes in funeral service brochures, got sicker, her daughter had to tap on her back to help her cough up mucus from her lungs. A nurse from her doctor’s office urged her to go to an emergency room.
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